ds2 been the model child for the last few weeks , had been thinking that our appointment at camhs tomorrow was unecessary, things were getting better blah blah blah until tonight .
ds2 has major flip outs , waiting for a second opinion from psychologist as to whether there is a diagnosis to be made . sometimes i am sure he has asd or adhd and some days i think hes just a badly behaved out of control teen.
he has been in trouble for upsetting a girl at school. he used a racist word , he said it wasnt about her , was talking to someone else about another person . school have said that because they dont really know if it was directly at her they wont exclude him just give a detention.
then , he hasnt been allowed to have dh password for something and has now flipped out .
school tie has been cut in half , dh is away with work driving hgv and ds2 has been phoning him telling him to crash and die 
he is currently crashing and banging in his bedroom and causing mayhem. i am trying to stay out of the way whilst keeping an ear out guessing what hes doing . this could go on for a long while . has said he intends to make my night hell as he is angry .
the last time he threw the entire contents of his bedroom into the bins at the back of the house .
i feel and fed up of dealing with this on my own.