Okay, so after everything this is pretty small, but transport called today to confirm arrangements for ds (ASD and age 5) starting school this week. He is going into big school for the first time etc etc. and transport has only just been agreed.
Somehow they thought I'd just be handing over from my doorstep on the first morning of school, in his brand new school uniform, with a new bag, and pe kit for the first time to go in a completely new school entrance to a new classroom with a new teacher, with absolutely no transition etc. Now actually, ds is pretty good with transitions but even without the ASD, he is 5!!!!!
And not only that but when I asked if he was going to have a booster seat, they replied that if I really wanted one they could arrange it.