I have posted on here before re my DS. He had his 1st assessment on Fri. His Das my exh was also there. I have posted about the issues before but want your view on a specific issue.
It became apparent that my DS behaviour is perfect for his Dad who he sees every other weekend.
It's terrible (attention seeking and impulsive and oppositional) everywhere else. With me at school with other family members at his sports club.
He said its because at his house there are consequences. He then said my mode of punishment - removal of x box for a week at a time was excessive.
I asked him what consequences he used and this is what he said:
When DC failed to move his cup and plate after eating he told him next time he did it he would be made to eat off the floor.
He actually followed through with this and made my DC eat off the floor!
I'm stunned! He said this quite openly in front of DC and Peadiatrician! Neither my Ex or my DC felt there was anything wrong with that. (if I ask him to tidy his room I'm the bitch from hell)
I'm stunned and shocked. What the hell do I do about that!???? I'm not overreacting am I?