DD1 has been under CAMHS for a while now and is now going alone to see her therapist. Had feedback with therapist today. She said she havent got a grip on DD1 and how much of her anxity is autism normal and how her brain works, and whether its possible to unpick some of it but shes going to try again with her in Sept when she starts new school.
After first being blamed for her problems, i got the feedback that she feels that dd1 feels she has a very supportive mummy who will do anything to make things easier and does so ona daily basis :)
was so nice to know that all that i do does help :)