to possibly help support verso on \link{http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk?topicid=138&threadid=152400&stamp=060305210919\this thread}
it isn't about kids with SN but a family unit with SN (seems her DH has MS and they have a 10 month old) ... and she's going through a rough time
.. I just found when I first got on to mumsnet that I felt an affinity with people on the SN board .. and your understanding and compassion was much appreciated