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Finally got an appointment with Daphne Keen!!

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Soutty · 29/03/2012 11:12

Hi all,

I posted on here a while ago about my frustration with the way that the assessment procedure with my son seems to be going nowhere. He hasn't had an appointment with the speech therapist since October although whenever I phone they say he hasn't been forgotten and despite being confirmed as having a 2 year delay in expressive speech when he saw the paed in August, I've had no appointments since despite being reassured that he's in the system and hasn't been forgotten.

Luckily for our son, we are able to afford to pay for private assessments and next week he sees the speech therapist and finally, finally, finally, after weeks of badgering her secretary on the phone we have a date for him to be assessed by Daphne Keen. Not until July but still I am just so relieved that finally he will be assessed by someone who knows what they are talking about.

My son starts school in September so none of these reports will be through in time for me to get a statement for him in time for reception but with any luck we'll have got one by the time he goes into Year 1.

Anyone on here seen Daphne Keen? What's she like as a person? What's the assessment procedure like? I know it takes 2 hours but apart from that I don't really know what to expect - not that I intend to school him for it of course as clearly that would render the whole thing pointless...

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LeninGrad · 18/04/2012 12:38

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Soutty · 18/04/2012 13:19

I have read that chapter Leningrad and lo, there was my son! Up until then I hadn't really recognised him as he doesn't behave badly to escape or gain attention (well he used to actually but when he really wants something he will look right in my eyes and say can I have a biscuit please mummy, that's where the VBA has worked).

He is immensely controlling - he cried almost all day on Sunday because he wanted to play on the Iphone. We didn't give in though and he has been a little angel since :) Was a bloody long day though!

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Chundle · 18/04/2012 13:20

I have spoken to secretary she was lovely! Took loads of info said will pass it onto dk and ring me back with a dat most likely august time which isn't too bad. She said its 720 pound and you can cancel up to 24 hrs before with no charge. I have a few positives that I will prob mention like dd can fully work an iPod touch accessing YouTube, games, music etc at 2.5 yrs her memory is phenomenal! I love mumsnet thanks for pointing me in right direction

Soutty · 18/04/2012 14:03

Her secretary is lovely and when I first spoke to her in early February she said they were taking bookings for May and would call me with an appointment. She emailed me straight away after that call and I thought great. Then I waited...and I waited...and I chased her up...and waited some more...and chased her up and waited some more and chased her up and this went on for some weeks until I eventually got a letter with an appointment for the end of July unless a cancellation comes up before then.

It's worth perservering.

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Chundle · 18/04/2012 14:06

Oh Bugger it my bubbles burst :) well fingers crossed it will all go to plan!!! I'll give her a few days do you suggest?? Or perhaps til Monday to ring me then ill be back on the phone!

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Chundle · 18/04/2012 16:31

Great thanks for advice Lenin ill ask for that. I'm glad its bit of wait gives me time to stockpile my notes secretary put me on spot a bit when she asked what the issues were I didn't know where to start!

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Chundle · 18/04/2012 17:11

Thanks Lenin I shall do the same. I'm thinking dd will most likely be difficult. Two hours she will never endure!! I shall have to do a 2 hr train journey with her on my own to get there first as well so she will be tired and irritable! Omg what have I let myself in for :)

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Chundle · 18/04/2012 21:04

Great advice justa thank you!

tunafortea · 22/05/2012 10:36

Still waiting for contact from Sec.
I thought she was lovely (prob still is) but I have been waiting for my appt letter for chuffing ages now (about 6 weeks).
What is the best number again, please?

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