i am a regular on here and have on going help problems with dd 4 any way i went to dd parents meeting today and i thought this is going well dd as a full 1to 1 statement and then at end the teachers say dd told her 1to when she naughty i hit her over head with her bag 
and said she as right to tell me and question her and if she says agian will have to report it i am just so upset, i know kids say horrible thing she does about school but i also know how she dont all ways understand what she says but copys what others have said i said to school do you really think in would we do every things for her she said well she dont come across of aboused child and told us to going to qestion dd in morning. so when she came home i asked her about it she said i didint and so explained its wrong to say some thing thats not right but really just dont seem to unerdstand
. i am toltily upset and dont know what to make on it all i am being careful as i want her to be able to tell the teacher when she really needs help if you know what i mean? what the hell do i do? yes she as chalanging behavoiur but we never even pat her on hand we use time out step or taking things away when she naughty