School just phoned - ds has been in a fight!

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He's only 4 - in ss asd / ld 7 children in his class and 6 staff. He's the youngest and usually passive. He has a pinch mark apparently - don't know about the other child! I'm sure I will find out more when I collect him later.........

DS was in a fight too :(

He doesn't understand why he's being punished for beating up a girl - when she provoked him!

:( :( :(

Don't make too much of a big deal out of it. All kids get into fights. It's only if it's a frequent occurrence that you need to panic :)

It must be a week of it. DS was also in a fight :(

He bit a girl on the shoulder :( He has been dared every day by two particular boys to do daft things. Usually sliding down muddy rocks where they know he will get dirty or take a branch from trees. But this time he was dared to bite a girl and told they wont be his friends if they dont and they will get revenge tomorrow for him not doing it :(

First time he has every hurt anyone physically and its not a nice feeling. I stick to the frame of mind that at least it wasnt in his own head to do it but sad that little kids have worked out that as he is the flighty one that they can get him in trouble :(

DS had a bad night last night - I warned his teacher this morning that he might be grumpy! DS only usually reacts if someone tries to take something off him - I'm hoping that is what happened! I wont be able to talk to DS about it - that is way beyond his level of understanding.

Bless him. Well you already warned the school he was overdone so you can really put it down to he was tired and teasy so it was most probably a one off and he had a short fuse today:)

Spoke to his teacher when I picked him up - I think they were just worried because he had a nasty looking scratch on his face when it happened. DS has very sensitive skin though and a tiny scratch ends up looking really serious! I'm used to it because my skin is the same - I often get people saying to me "OMG what have you done" and I've just scratched my neck in passing !!
It seems there was an altercation - DS didn't want to give up a toy!