Would really appreciate any advice.
Ds1 (4.5) been at his special school for 2.5wks now, and goes via transport, a journey which has thus far taken approx 45mins each way.
There were a few teething troubles but in the last week things seemed to have settled down nicely.
On Friday I found out that they are adding another child, a 13 year old, to his transport...he is going to the same school but the secondary site, which is 15mins away from the primary, and starts and finishes at different times.
This is itself I have no problem with. I expected that he might have to share at some point, and can see some positives to that. The problem is that I have just had a call from the taxi firm to say that they now need to pick ds up 45mins earlier, as this other boy lives at the other end of the borough and they want to pick ds up first. This means that ds will now be in the car for 1hr 45 mins, and I just think this is too much for a 4 year old. It is doubling his journey time.
So my question is, do I have a right to complain? Or would this be seen as a reasonable adjustment to his journey? I cannot stand to think of him on a journey that long, and am desperately trying to think how I can start driving him myself but with a 2 year old soon to start nursery near home, and a 7 year old at school nearby I can't see how it could ever be possible.
Dammit! I'm in a right state now