We had a fab family day out yesteday at Legoland, me, dh, dd (6) and ds (4) with ASD and LD. Merlins Magic Wand provided the tickets and we had a wonderful time. It was very busy yesterday and the sun was shinning, I took proof of ds condition and he had an exit pass for the rides and we could go all ride with him (even if there were 2 riders per car we could have two cars). The Legoland staff were all friendly and helpful and we were able to keep DS in his buggy right up until getting on the ride in many cases. DS loves fish so the Atlantis ride was a big hit!
I did feel guilty "jumping" all the queues but we didn't have any negative reactions from anyone (that I saw). In all honesty we would not have coped without the exit pass and made full use of it.
It was wonderful to have a "normal" family day out.