DS3 has being diagnosed with ADHD and is suspected of being on the autistic spectrum. He had a SALT assesment that showed he has a poor understanding of social motivations. He has always read very well but has just had an test at school to assess his reading age and he has failed miserably. Does anyone have any experience of how ASD might affect his comprehension of what he's reading? or has his last school just got it all wrong?. tbh I'm quite shocked as his CAT scoring came out alot lower than everyone expected, and verbally he comes across as quite bright.
DS1 has aspergers but very high functioning and copes well and also dyslexia, DS2 has ADHD and also does very well. They do well because I have spent years battling with everyone at school to get things right for them, I guess I was hoping it would be easier this time :( think it's just going to be another battle. DS3 also has moderate hearing loss due to glue ear and hypermobility that has ruined his pen grip. I feel guilty because I've had to handle one child at a time and his last school wasn't that worried so I've not worried either. He had an OT assessment that showed his pen grip is very poor and will never be improved very much as it should have been looked at when he was 5, he's nearly 10 now. I feel like I've ignored him and it's all gone wrong when his last school was addament he was bright and doing well, his last report was excellent. It's all just not adding up and I'm really confused :(