hi i dont write on here much but read all the threads.my ds 14 eventually had an assessment yesterday and they fainally agreed he has lots of traits of as and adhd and others at least now they wont keep saying its our parenting!!!he doesnt cope with school so has 5hrs tuition in the library and they said he should have cbt so pleased he doesnt have alable but glad they have identified he has problems.thenks for reading.would love to know if anyone else in the same boat oh i also had him assessed privately cost me 700 pound that just said he had a very small part of as..