Hoping some may be able to help me! I will try to be brief!!
DD3 aged 7. She was diagnosed with Aspergers in Feb 2010. She has struggled enormously with aquiring literacy skills at school since she was in reception. Psychology testing (WPSI ) and assessment by Learning Support Teacher show her to be of above average intelligence yet she continues to perorm WELL below average , especially in reading and writing. People (LSA, Ed Psych) have used phrases such as "dyslexic tendancies" and "difficulties in keeping with dyslexia" but wont commit to saying "she has dyslexia" I am in the process of applying (again!) for an assessment for a statement for her (but that's another thread!
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We have ALWAYS felt that she doesnt quite hear things the same as other people. One of the first things we did when we began to expeience concerns about her development was have her hearing checked (3 times!!) but this always came back as normal.She constantly "mis-hears" similar sounding words. She muddles up syllables. and she CANT do phonics AT ALL ( tried to pursuade school to teach her using key word approach, they refused and stuck her in yet more booster phonics groups!)It took her ages to understand which words "rhymed." She has trouble identifying where a sound comes from at times (eg if I call her when we are out, it is often clear she has heard me but she often spins round and round trying to see where I am calling from)
She also has SHOCKING organisational skills, and is hopeless at any tasks involving sequencing (takes her forever to get ready for school in the morning etc)
A couple of times now people (one of which wa sthe Autism Outreach Team) have mentioned phrases like "poor auditory processing" and "poor auditory discrimination" She has seen SALT twice who both times basically said everything was "within normal limits"
I have an appointment booked next week for private dyslexia assessment for her. The lady doing this talked a bit about APD when I spoke to her and suggested I contact someone locally that is quite well known in the field.I have done this and she has left me a message ( I havent managed to actually speak to her yet!)saying there is a clinic which offers assessment locally , but it is a private clinic and costs £200. We dont have much (any!) spare cash just now, and are already paying out for dyslexia screening. We could potentially save up some money over a few months and go ahead with assessment.
But I guess my question is would it be worth it? Is it possible to have APD and Aspegers? Or are her processing issues just part of her Aspergers so we wouldnt learn anything new from assessment? If we do find she has APD would that alter management for her and eg teaching approaches etc.How easy would it be to get LEA to consider this in a statement?Is there any specific therapy that would help?
sorry for rambling, but would appreciate any advice! we are obviously keen to do whatever we can tp help DD , but do have to be realistic about money etc...