Hello Lovely Ladies,
So my DS (almost 3) was diagnosed on May 20th (working dx) of ASD. We were given a letter right away that was not signed and were told to wait 6 weeks, as that is when they would send us a SALT and an OC. They also said we would get a better more defined letter with the working dx later.
Eventually, we did get an amended letter. In it they decided against giving our son an ADOS, felt that he was exhibiting echolalia (which isn't accurate).*
All in all we were thrilled with how easy all of this seemed and how we didn't have to fight. We began to look for a plan for our DS and have started PRT with RGO. We were under the impression that since our DS was getting 1-1 SALT weekly through the early intervention team in our council that we would see another SALT 1-1 weekly. The first SALT was who referred us to see the community pediatrician and then stopped seeing us because it was now the councils job to allocate SALT for our DS.
I waited patiently for 7.5 weeks before I called to see what was taking soo long to even hear about what their plan was regarding SALT and OC. And when I called, I was told that our DS will never be given 1-1 SALT and it is not offered to any child in our borough.
What we will be offered is an introduction course this Thursday where I will be taught the different things I can do as a parent to help my child and then wait to be told if I am allowed a space into a course that may or may not start in September (that will run 9 weeks) where I again will be taught how to help my child communicate.
No actual SALT for my child will ever be available, because ultimately it's my parenting skills and communication that my DS learns from anyway and the community support team is really there for me as a parent, not for my child. They are also under the impression that SALT's don't really help children anyway, it's the advice they give the parents that make all the difference.
This is bullshit, right?