here too ds was bullied at first then middle school and systematically told he was stupid by teachers time and time again and they wonder why I took him out of the school HT wouldnt admit or help saying "we dont have bullying in our school" and told me he wasnt that bad or that far behind , when i removed him and sent him to another smaller school she shouted at me in front of other parents as i left her office that i was ridiculous, a year later he was diagnosed ASD,Dyspraxic ,,,, thats how ridiculous i am and if i hadnt i truly believe he would quite possibly be dead now as he had tried to drown himself twice (i have to wait outside now when he bathes) and put cords round his neck numerous times , said he wished he was dead and tried running away he was 8 -10 when this was happening but hey what do i know im ridiculous. poor family left behind bloody politicians and red tape