I won!!!!! whooooo hoooooooo !!!!!
I haven't had an offical confirmation yet but the SENCO of his current school just pulled me aside. He recived an E-Mail today from the LEA stating that my son's school placement for next year has been changes to the school i appealed for. Which must mean i won!!!!!
I am Soooo happy i can barely sit down!!! 
I was so worried but now i can finally relax that my son is going to a school that seem's to understand and support ASD children !!!!!! and that for the first time ever the sucky system didn't fail me!!!