We have had 3 kids with us for over a year and we have now been told they have to go into respite for 6 weeks. My kids and foster kids are devastated by this with mood swings, tears and not eating. They dont go till Friday....but I feel there is something they are not telling us...though some have said this sometimes happens, especially as our kids are older. They want to stay and ours want them to stay.....any advice???