I applied for my eldest and was turned down as there was not enough info, i couldnt appeal as teh letter telling me it couldn't be paid took longer tahn the 30 days I had to appeal! I then thought I wouldn't bother as things had improved a lot but I applied for my youngest and awarded it straight away!
On advice from a professional involved with us I did reapply for eldest just after i applied for youngest as things have started to get worse again and I now have dr reports etc to support my claim. So hopefully I will get some for her this time too, I ahd dr reports for first so I think thats why it was awarded so quickly.
I have mixed feelings though. I feel sad as it maked me think just how difficult things are for him. The money will be such a help though