Just wanted to say thanks davros- I remember you talking about labelling your son with phone numbers and stuff. I've been worried about school mislaying ds1 iykwim (I don't think they will but heard so many horror stories abour other asd kids in mainstream schools) that I thought that was a really good idea. Anyway I've bought him a medicalert bracelet- it arrived this morning and he's happy to wear it (BIBIC much really be working as he woudln't have worn it a few weeks ago). It says on the back AUTISM NO SPEECH ALLERGIC PENICILLIN and I've left loads of phone numbers with them.
So thanks for the idea. Once less thing to worry about.