I thought I'd post something positive 
After I lost the plot last fri I decided to just put it behind me until I had heard whether the head had undone my outburst (haven't yet)
Anyway it was my work weekend so I had planned the weekend very well. We had a fantastic weekend .
Spent the whole weekend together - no tantrums, no outbursts (well nothing serious).
Swimming was fab and after a bit of persuation I got him to lie in a rubber ring and I span him around and around. He loved it... and at that moment I could see that it might not be 'normal' but he was happy and contented so WHO cares!
The following day he was so chilled that he had a fabulous morning and gave me a break as he went off and played with friends
Sometimes you got to love it when a plan comes together!!