something short of a miracle happened this morning.
When i dropped my niece and ds off in the playground my niece always gives me a hug and a kiss well this morning ds gave me a hug!!!!
Me and DH think this is due to counselling he has been having for his anxiety and stress from the child psychologist over the last few weeks, he is slowly changing from an aggressive always crying boy to a more "chilled" one.
he still obsesses over times and routines etc but hey- i can put up with that if i get a hug in return!
Me and DH have also had counselling from the child psychologist on how to manage his behaviour and its getting easier now, we know what triggers off tantrums and makes him frightened and we are avoiding them.
But when the firework season starts that remains to be seen as ds is petrified of fireworks and usually puts his hands over his ears and screams for britain so thats the next big hurdle.
anyway just thought id share a bit of good news because he has made my day with that hug