Saw gp today to try to get a referral for second opinion after Ados test was negative. 2 EP's and various other professionals suspect ds has AS and he has numerous traits. Gp said - "if they say there's no Autism then there isn't. You can't fake it". Then see Camhs counsellor who is seeing him for his severe anxiety issues and low self-esteem. She said "ds is getting anxious because everyone around him (us and school) is anxious and worried". Then said "what difference would a diagnosis make?" 
Is there any end to the incompetence you have to put up with? I know the answer but just need a rant right now.