I am in absolute shock, went online today to check our bank account and there was a deposit for £191.20 and my heart started thumping as I checked who it was from - it said DLA!!!
I requested the form on 2 Sept and sent it in by registered post on 15th Sept, cannot believe they gave us middle rate in 3 weeks, i'm so chuffed, especially after the last few days.
Thanks to all of you who helped out with my questions and thank the Lord for Cerebra for making such a great guide on how to fill out the form. I wrote so much I reckon the person deciding must have thought it was easier to say yes than to have to read it all 
Woo hoo!!!!!