Ok last term ds signed off school as suicidal (age 5yrs)as being attacked by other boy with SNs. Anyway IEP last week reassurred the attacker would have 1:1 and ds to try 5 mins in yard....no 1:1 with the attacker today and attacker was trying to run really fast up to ds....ds was saying to 1:1 at bus stop "I wanna jump in front of the bus" ds had to be held tight (no more bus to school) and ds wet himself at some point in school which ds never does only once last year when anxious in school as soaked through when came home (ds can ask for toilet etc normally).