What to expect (possible ADHD and ODD)

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I have done an e-consult and explained I think my child has the above and given examples of why I believe that and have been sent a form to fill out which she ticks every box for.
The GP says they need evidence from school before a referral can be considered and I don’t think the school see any of the behaviour that concerns us because she masks so well at school and when she gets home we see the shaken coke bottle effect.
I have asked for a meeting at school but as it’s the end of year they can’t see us until September so I still don’t know what to expect there.
I’m just hoping someone who’s been here can shed some light on what the next steps are and what happens if the school doesn’t provide evidence as she masks and they don’t see it?
I know we have a long road ahead but it feels like we’re just getting the ball rolling and the school could be an obstacle if they don’t see any symptoms.

The process varies area to area.

For an ADHD diagnosis, you need signs in at least 2 settings. However, just because a school doesn’t see difficulties doesn’t mean they don’t exist. Good HCPs understand masking and that schools don’t always see difficulties.