hi i have 2 adopted daughters who have transitioned from primary to a much bigger high school last year. I'm battling every day to get them to follow the EHCP's. Both my daughters have various problems and i kept getting told they are following it verbally by the SENCO at the school but then incidents happen where it is obvious that staff have little or no knowledge of what's in their EHCPs. A small example is my youngest has a small bladder and is on medication. it is in her EHCP that she needs to be allowed to go to the loo whenever she feels the need. The SENCO has told me categorically that all teachers are aware of this and that they all know she has a toilet pass - yet she keeps coming home soaking wet ( she is 11 so horrendous in front of her peers) as teachers wont allow her to go to the toilet.. she is currently red raw from sitting and moving about in wet knickers and in agony - the only way i could make her comfortable enough to send her to school today was smothered in sudocreme and wearing cycling shorts under her skirt. when i ring and complain or meet and complain there is always a reason like - well it shouldnt have happened or they try and blame my child in some way - this by the way is one of the least problems we are having. my child has been too anxious to go into lessons and no one has noticed she is missing until the end of the lessons as she has been hiding in the toilet having panic attacks on her own, and no one has noticed until the end of the lessons even though she is meant to be supervised during transitions from one lesson to another and in the class itself. Its an absolute joke but im feeling completely helpless. can anyone help or advise please ?
Also I had a meeting today to go through the review again and there are a number of provisions set out in F that the high school don’t provide such as scaffolded small group intervention work to help build social and emotional skills to encourage meaningful peer friendships and peer to peer work to develop social skills. The school have advised that a number of provisions in F be removed as it’s not something they provide. I have said absolutely not as the provisions set out in F are the building blocks needed for the needs of my children in E. I know that the school theoretically should not have accepted my daughters if they couldn’t meet the transitions set out in their EHCP’s but we are where we are - I just need to know how I can enforce them to do the provisions set out in F. Can anyone help ?