I suspect ds (8) might have ADHD. Eldest dc has recently been diagnosed with ADD.
I would like an official assessment via child psychiatrist which I am willing to pay for privately. Recently, I approached SENCO at school - my take on it is I need to gather a bit more information regarding how ds functions within school setting before approaching psychiatrist. I don't want to play amateur psychologist as DS also ticks boxes for other things and I would like them ruled in or ruled out so have decided that an assessment is definitely required.
Is this the correct approach to take? And if so, how long should I wait for observations etc. before making the appointment?
Any advice would be gratefully received.