my son was diagnosed last year with autism. I found out about ABA and started a program with a case manager albeit without much research. i think i was just too overwhelmed and panicky about not doing something fast and went in with what came my way! now i have come to a point where i am not so sure about how things are progressing!! i need some advice on what a good home program should look like!! what should be my starting point? what components are essential?? i know its individual but there must be some basics. also my data folder has been described as appaling by a new therapist! how to have my son assessed as so far i dont think we have had a proper assessment!! not sure if that was my fault as i was trying to preserve every penny or just not been informed correctly!! i am literally going mad with worry and stress as i am paying a lot of money for something that might not be right for my son or isnt working!! i feel like its all my fault but i have no one to turn to!!! please help!!