My son under speech therapist for pragmatics. hehas friends but chooses quieter kids and not keen on more boisterous alpha male types. He is where he needs to be for reading but 1 to 2 sub levels behind where he should be in maths and writing. he is confident at home but not at school and darent put his hand up if he doesn't understand. teachers think he cannot follow or understand multiple commands however this is not the case at home. should i have him assessed / anyone any ideas what is wrong - i think teachers suspect asd although not admitting it - i think he is shy - help!