so need to make it to sling library to try out but struggling. anyway i borrowed a connecta integra from a mate with dd1 and liked it a lot as did DH. I'm short and have narrow shoulders he's over 6 foot. an ergo is too wide in the shoulders for me as is the olives and applesauce which i tried on at a sling meet. the rose and rebellion looks great but the sling library one has a long waiting list. i already use my kari-me loads but want another carrier ideally for back carries too. DD2 is 3 months old so mostly for her but if i could occasionally carry dd1 (3yr only 11kg) that would be even better