when do u know the 1st am nap can go?

[hermykne]

ds naps at 9.30 or so for 25mins (wakes himself) then naps for 1hr 45 at 12.30/1pm, but this morn does not want the 1st nap, he is 10 1/2 mths,
should i keep up now til 12 or as close to 12.30 as poss?
TIA

? Thats pretty hard to answer.

Is he tired? If he'll survive til then then yes i'd keep him up.

But only his Mummy will know best

he looks it but not acting it, playing with older dd

I would keep him going until you can't keep him going any longer but certainly no later than his normal 2nd nap time.