I can't even figure out what the problem is, so I'm just going to throw everything I can think of up and hope some genius MNer spots a clue.
Ds has always been a cuddle-to-sleep baby and it hasn't been that much of an issue, until lately.
We start around 7:30 after bath and a brief runaround (he always comes out of the bath HYPER). We read 3 stories, he asks for more, then it's lights out and the malarkey starts. He tosses and turns (has always done that), notices things to talk about. He puts his head in my lap, off, on, off, on. He plays with the bed guard; he wants a drink; he sits up and wants to GO! For 20mins or so - THEN he decides to try, and it takes another 1/2hr for him to actually fall asleep. At least an hour all up.
Tonight he started to howl "go mama" or maybe "mama go", sobbing, but when I got up, he got worse so I stayed. Finally fell asleep in my arms.
He has an hour nap around lunchtime - maybe the issue is that we are sleeping late (he sleeps til 8) then napping late (around 1-2)? But he naps easily and quickly and he really needs it still.
He's only been in his own bed/room 10 days (from co-sleeping) and the malarkey seems to me to be getting worse; maybe because I am going to work some days? (Leaving him with dh). Could it be separation anxiety? Or maybe because I've stopped laying down with him (I am too pg to lie beside him thrashing around in a single bed; I can't bear getting thumped/kicked/laid on for the half hour it takes him to go down; I do lie with him at naptime because he's out in 5, with no thrashing).
Any clues in there? I could come up with a solution if I had an idea what might be going through his head, but I don't really get it. Help please