My dd takes short naps usually of around half an hour. Last few days though she has had a longer lunchtime nap (1-2 hours) when I have gone in when she has woken after say 20-30 mins (and she's still looking tired/crying) and helped her back to sleep. I did this either by rocking or feeding. Then though I couldn't put her down or she would wake straight away so I would end up with her on me...
How on earth do I get her to sleep for longer and without me?
Occasionally she will go to sleep on her own for naps, but those naps aren't particularly longer than naps when I rock her or feed her to sleep.
ps if I leave her to cry she tends to get hysterical and wake herself up totally which defeats the object, and I don't like to hear her cry.
thanks for any tips/experiences!