My baby is 6 months old, nearly 7 months. In the beginning we have had to co sleep due to our house being very cold and baby not settling in her bed next to me. Over the last 2 months, we have tried transitioning her to her cot, but she will not settle. We've tried the ferber method, waiting until she's asleep, putting her In drowsy, patting, shushing, dummy, lovey, my shirt, me leaving the room, me staying in the room. On the very rare occasion she does sleep, it's only for about 30 mins, and As soon as she wakes she gets so upset and won't go back. I've even tried just letting her play in there, but as soon as I'm out of sight she has a meltdown. There is nothing wrong with our co-sleeping set up, I just selfishly want our bed back :( and we keep waking each other up.