Desperately after some advice - DS is 9 months tomorrow and has never been a great sleeper, it all settled down at about 5/6 months but has recently gotten worse and I can't figure out what is going on.
He had a phase (2/3 weeks ago) of screaming inconsolably for about an hour and a half when I put him down for the night. This then changed to screaming in the middle of the night for an hour or so. None of the usuals would work (feeding, cuddles, tummy strokes, sshing). This is still going on but I've started cosleeping when it kicks off as this is the only way to get him to calm down somewhat and to get some sleep.
For context, he usually wakes a couple of times for feeds in the night but used to go straight back to sleep after them. He self settles at the start of the night. He's recently transitioned to 2 naps, will do 1 hour - 2 hours per nap, we cap total day sleep at 3 hours.
I can't for the life of me work out if it's developmental, over/ undertired or what. Any help much appreciated!