Hi all just looking for a bit of advice.
my 20 month old has never been a great sleeper but recently she’s become the worst she’s ever been. Bedtimes are taking anywhere up to 2 hours to get her to go down as she’s just hysterical about going in her cot. I’ve tried the Ferber method and sometimes it can work after 2/3 minutes but majority of the time it seems to make her worse as she gets herself in such a state I have to get her back out of bed to calm down sometimes taking an hour/ 2 hour until I she’s just exhausted and falls to sleep. If she does go to bed at 7;30 she’s awake again by 10 screaming and most nights it ends in me just taking her into my bed because it’s the only way to get some sleep but even then she’s still waking every few hours in my bed so either way we’re not getting much sleep. I know her in my bed isn’t helping the situation but she won’t settle again in her cot she just becomes completely hysterical having a mega tantrum. Any help or advice would be appreciated TIA x