We are struggling.
Our 3-year-old doesn't nap, goes to sleep at 7 pm, and wakes up at 6 am. This we can live with. The problem is every night between 10 pm - 2 am he gets out of his bed, makes it and brings himself into our bed. We have followed the HV advice and go in the comfort him when he shows signs of stirring to reset his sleep pattern. We have also tried taking him back into his bed and leaving him, taking him back into his bed and lying with him until he falls back to sleep and we have tried to let him fall asleep in our bed and take him back to his. None of these are working, he either brings himself back into us or screams the house down.
We love him, but we need our bed back and a decent night's sleep.