Looking for some advice on my nearly 2 year olds sleep.
So we don't have any strict routine, mainly because I work and he stays with his nans or his dad whilst I work and his nap time varies from like a 20 minute car nap to 2 hours in the house when they have him, he also gets up very early he always has between 4:30-5:30am so he is ready for a nap quite early in the morning, so today he was up at 4:30 and fell asleep at 8:30am for 2 hours and then he was awake until 6 whilst he was with my mum.
For a few months now he has been having tantrums which I know is completely normal for his age but he is having the worst tantrums before bed and during his night time sleep too so he is constantly exhausted!
I don't know what I am doing wrong but I can't cope with the lack of sleep anymore and then getting up at 4:30am I work and I'm finding it very difficult, I also have a 5 year old who is in school and he keeps him awake during the night screaming we can't carry on like this as a family and I need to make a change but I'm not sure what to do or were to start 😫