My son has recently been through the sleep regression so we've been doing some gentle hands-on settling and he has now learned to link his sleep cycles in the day (yay!).
However, his night sleep has gotten horrific. He wakes around 7, naps 9-10, 12-2 and then 4-4.30. Final feed at 6 and in bed by 6.30. He's now waking around 9pm and we can't get him back down until 10.30-11, and then he's waking pretty much every 2.5-3 hours.
He's BF and can self settle for naps, so I don't understand where we're going wrong. We use exactly the same technique as we did in the day with some hands on shushing and patting. After a while I try feeding and he just uses me like a pacifier and doesn't feed, so it's not hunger related. Last night he only had one feed at 2am but we were up and down with him all night!