just wanted to say that i bought my dd (3.9yrs) a cd to listen to in bed at night. she has always listened to bedtime music but the last few months she has been nightmare at bedtime.
someone on an unrelated thread suggested child meditation cd, so i bought one and its absolutely bloody marvellous, she is asleep every night within half an hour.
there are lots of different ones, ebay, amazon etc. mine is by a company called relax kids and they do them in lots of different characters for girls and boys (dd has princess one)
just wanted to pass on this recommendation because its been a godsend for me.