Hi - DS is 9+4 and since 9 weeks I have dropped the 1am feed. He was still waking at 1am until I tried the BW wake to sleep - but now wakes at 2am. I dont let him cry at all - but sit with him give him a dummy and he drops back off to sleep. on one occasion didnt then wake til 5.30 but last night was up again by 3.30.
Soothing him and trying to make him go til 4/5 am without waking is my goal (he has dreamfeed at 10am and I am cluster feeding pre and post bathtime)....and right now it is hardwork. It would be quicker and easier to feed/ wind/ settle then it is doing what I am doing.
I am prepared to ride this out for a few more weeks if anyone can tell me that my hardwork will not be in vain.
Please share your experiences. thanks in advance.