My LO is 5 months old and we have had a rough time with sleep for the last few months, she was pretty good to start with as had jaundice so was sleepy and would happily sleep in carry cot downstairs and cot upstairs with regular waking for feeds.
For the last few weeks we have had major problems with resettling her after her first night feed - she will fall asleep again but will not be put back into her cot (side sleeper) and will grunt, whine or cry until she is picked up when she is happy and quiet. Last night she slept from 7.45 to 12.30, fed back to sleep then stayed in my arms until 3.30 when I handed her to my husband who held her till 5. Every time we tried to put her down she objected. I think she generally stays asleep but is so noisy that neither of us can sleep and if I leave her she will wake herself up with the noise. She also pulls her legs up and strains a lot so I think she has a lot of wind which accumulates in the night and causes discomfort.
My question is... if it is wind that is causing this do I just have to wait until her gut develops further and she is less windy, or is it possible this is a behavioural thing and she just wants to be held? I have tried cosleeping but the same thing happens. Any advice greatly appreciated!