sleeping in same room

[katey2020]

Hi , I have 2 children a 4 year old boy and and a 1year and 3 months girl, I'm fanly decided to my her in with her brother. How do people do it in nervous there fight like hell and always mean to each all day none stop,
. Do you put both children bed together or separate
Any clues at all. She used to wake up quite alot and cry in her sleep alot so I think she's ready now she slepta throught the night at 11 months

Tonight I put my son in bed first because he's the loudest and my daughter is quite good, but dont think its fair putting him bed first as he's older he went down at 7.30 and she went at 8pm

At that age, I did the bigger one first too, then brought the little one up when the older was already asleep and the little one was nearly there.

Then, once DS2 was a bit older, and DS1 was super-easy to put to bed, they started just both going at the same time (easier for stories too)

Now, the oldest is nearly 10, they still share a room, and they still go up at the same time, but the older is allowed to read for a bit rather than go straight to sleep.

I put her bed at 8pm she's singing to her brother haha he's a really light sleeper so hopefully she doesn't wake him got the baby monitor in there but she's been waking up last 2 night at 10pmtill 4am but I think it were the heat,

My son wakes up at 5am-6am and she normally gets up at 7.30-8am that's all gonna change ino he be waking her up nooo lol