Dd is 20 months and still breastfed to sleep and wakes every hour or so for quick top ups. I have coslept since 7 months which is ok but I really want her in her own bed now. All the advice for 'gentle' sleep training suggests a similar thing- let her cry in cot for three min then go in to settle her for 1 min but no picking up then leave for three mins etc. Fine except I can't settle her by just being there or patting and shusshing using calm voice she just continues to scream and it's awful. Any advice please?