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8wk old baby, I'm so tired I think I'm going to die

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ChubbyScotsBurd · 16/09/2007 20:12

I posted a while back about my baby not sleeping.

Now he won't sleep all day, sometimes not even if he's carried. I bought a sling with money we can't really afford and he screamed in it. He wakes at 5ish and then aside from naps of maybe 15 minutes tops (in his bouncy chair or being carried) he doesn't sleep at all all day.

By the evening he's so tired he's panting and wide-eyed (looks like he's on speed or something) and then he starts this frantic need to suck, usually my boob. He sucks while screaming, sometimes screaming until he's sick. Once he screamed until he went stiff, then limp - I'm sure he made himself faint. He won't tolerate a dummy, even when introduced when he's settled. I have to go to bed with him when it starts (he'll only go down to sleep at night if he sucks to sleep) but it can take up to 4 hours to get him to sleep properly. I then have to try and move him up the bed so I can sleep myself, but this often wakes him all over again. He doesn't tend to sleep for much over an hour at a time anyway.

He's taking/taken every colic remedy going but this thing is simple tiredness. He must only be getting 6-8 hours in a 24hr period. He gets terrible wind through the day but I'm working on colief which seems to be helping, but it's early days. My big problem is it takes him so long to settle down I'm sure he's waking from hunger quite soon after.

Also, this is getting progressively worse - everything seems to be getting worse. I'm sure I'm losing it, and I'm losing patience with my poor baby who realy isn't to blame, he just doesn't know how to sleep. He USED to know, but he's awful now.

No idea what else to try, I'm not coping at all, not even a bit.

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ChubbyScotsBurd · 22/09/2007 20:31

Quick update - he's been a grumpy git all day (nothing new there then!) but hoping for another easier night. He was transferred to bed at 11ish and fed back to sleep without really waking IYSWIM. Woke at half 2 and frequently thereafter. Don't know how long this CO will take to work if at all .

Gaviscon does wild things to baby poo, doesn't it?!

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tribpot · 22/09/2007 20:39

CSB, all things crossed for you. Fight the good fight, my lady.

deste · 22/09/2007 21:51

Hi ChubbyScotsBurd I feel for you. I have been through it with DS 1. We were up about six times a night for 2yrs and 10 months. DD was the opposite went to bed at 5.15 and slept till 8.00. I would love to help but am in Aberdeen so still too far. Does your social services not offer a service to mums who need help and to give them a break. We have this service in Aberdeen. I know its difficult to admit to them that you need help, but believe me it might only be for a short time to get your baby into a routine. They would not judge you, just try to give you some respite. Try and find help and take any help offered. Forget the house sleep is more important.

bumbly · 22/09/2007 22:03

hey let us know if tonight goes better - thinking of you!! loads!!!!

hugs

ChubbyScotsBurd · 24/09/2007 14:35

I will now put an update as I have both hands free as LO is asleep, in his cot (!) for the second nap of the day having got up at 10.30am .

Basically, we've been using the sling for increasing periods (I had just decided he hated it cos first time I used it he freaked) and he will often sleep in there. I fear I will suffocate him amongst my ample breasts but he seems to prefer the mashed-face position so [shrug]. I've been playing him a white noise tape (Jenn ), giving Gaviscon (thank you to the single sympathetic GP in the entire health centre) and devoting hours on end to better daytime naps (funnypeculiar ). He saw a cranial osteopath on Friday who treated him for a tight diaphragm and lack of movement in his head - I still struggle with this as a scientific type myself but again, [shrug] if it works ... so we go back in a week for another session.

Nights have been tentatively better, still waking quite frequently but easier to get back to sleep. Crying in a definite colic pattern now, 6-10pm, much easier than previously (2-2 at times!).

Mainly though, I feel better thanks to you lot really - so, thanks! Better go, shrieking now ...

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Bodkin · 24/09/2007 15:05

That sounds really positive CSB - great to hear, and well done you for taking all the advice on board and turning things around! Don't worry about the 6-10pm screamathon, ,my DD2 was doing that - some call it Cluster Feeding, they just won't settle until they've had loads of snacky feeds to fill their tanks, so just keep feeding him, allowing him to doze between feeds if he will. Last week (at exactly 10 weeks old) mine just seemed to grow out of it, and now goes bananas if I don't put her to bed of an evening!

Really hope this is a big turning point for you and things start to get a bit easier from now on

bumbly · 24/09/2007 20:35

so so so happy for you..been wondering how you are

you dont want to know about me...terrible day and i think i have had it...thinking of unmentionable thoughts....

so am cheered to here you are better

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