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At breaking point

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Motherhippo · 01/02/2020 04:15

My 5 month old has got me at breaking point! She is keeping me up all night and is not sleeping through the day! I'm absolutely exhausted.
She fusses all night in pain unless I pop her over my shoulder. She's a very heavy baby and this is not comfortable for me. She sleep cries if I put her down. She is currently suffering from bad gas at night, as well as teething and a bad teething rash which is itchy for her. This means that she is unpleasant and fussy all day.
If I could get just a bit of sleep I could deal with her fussiness better but it's just isn't happening. I burp her after every feed. I try and keep her upright for 30 minutes each time but she fusses and wants to get going. So more often than not she is not upright for more than 5-10 minutes. Am going to try gripe water to see if that helps with the gas. She's been teething on and off since she was 3 months old and is yet to have any teeth come through. I give her calpol in the evenings to help with the discomfort so she can sleep. She's got no interest in teething rings/toys preferring her own finger. I've tried teething powder but it made no difference. Because of the teething she's dribbling a lot and constantly so she has developed a teething rash on her chin, neck (front and back) chest and back. I've been trying to treat it with Vaseline and keeping her as dry as possible. Chin is looking much better but chest and neck is red and angry looking. I know it's bothering her because she's trying to scratch it all the time (even in her sleep) I try to stop her from scratching but that just makes her cry. I've got no respite and I've reached the end of my tether. I guess I know there's nothing more I can do but I'm so exhausted I just need to sleep SadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSad

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stophuggingme · 05/02/2020 11:09

Bless her
Some oats in a muslin in her bath will be good for her skin
If you think it’s CMPA I would push for a referral to investigate your GP sounds next to useless
Try baby massage or the tiger in a tree hold for her wind at night time. My daughter was a dreadful windy ebf baby but she didn’t have CMPA. She got horrid trapped wind though and tiger in a tree hold really helped her settle. She was also a terrible sleeper but this did help.

BIWI · 05/02/2020 11:36

I'm glad it looks like you've found a cause/possible solution! Hopefully that means a happier baby

But what about your DP in all of this? Your recent posts don't mention him at all. Please tell me that he's being more supportive?

Motherhippo · 05/02/2020 12:18

@BIWI Physically more supportive (doing a little more around the house) emotionally not anymore supportive. Im just trying to crack on and focus on my daughter. Hopefully going dairy free will mean a happier little life for her 🤞

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MadeForThis · 05/02/2020 13:11

Be aware that you have to be dairy free for a few weeks before you will see an impact. Just so you're not expecting a quick result. If you're sure it's CMPA then stick with being dairy free for a while. Good luck

Motherhippo · 05/02/2020 13:35

@Madeforthis Yeah I think I read it can take 2-4 weeks to see any results of CMPA. I'm more than willing to give this ago in the hopes of helping LO Smile

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prosecconeeded · 06/02/2020 20:06

I literally could I wrote this myself. Your DP sounds very familiar. How old is your daughter? My son is 6.5 months & my dp is slowly getting better and better at helping me out. More often than not I do have to ask him 5 times to do the washing up or put baby to bed, but he will do it eventually. He's trying. In the beginning he was useless and I was like a zombie. Since baby was born we've almost split a few times due to this. I hope he steps up for you!
My LO is still in the crib next to me as he wakes up a lot during the night (no idea why). But we're getting there.... 🤞🏼

Motherhippo · 06/02/2020 21:27

@prosecconeeded My daughter is 5 months old. I'm glad your partner is helping out more even if you do have to ask him. I'd like to hope that mine will get better too. We're still not in a great place but it isn't bothering me at the moment.🤷‍♀️ Although I wasn't feeling great today so I didn't have dinner. Hubby has gone hungry because he couldn't be bothered to cook for himself... not my problem Smile I'm hoping if I can get to the root cause of my daughters fussing, I can start moving her out of my bed and into her own. I'm not even trying to do this with her naps at the moment as I need to catch up with sleep during the day and she tends to sleep more in my bed than on her own.

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Motherhippo · 07/02/2020 08:19

Well my partner is sceptical about LO being CMPA and I know it takes at least 2 weeks for the dairy to completely leave her system. However 2nd night of no dairy for me and she only started fussing at 3am. Picked her up gave her a cuddle and she went back down with out a fuss! Normally she's writhing in pain from 10pm until she wakes up the next day. And her rash is looking loads better. Partner says it's cream that has improved the rash and a coincidence that she's now starting to be a bit more settled. 🤷‍♀️ Whatever!! Hopefully things continue to go as they are and I'll be able to catch up with sleep and feel human again.

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MadeForThis · 07/02/2020 17:58

Love how he's suddenly an expert 😫😫

Motherhippo · 07/02/2020 18:50

@MadeForThis Maybe he's going to Medical School instead of work 😂😂 Coming from a man who told me "Not to jump to conclusions" when I thought I had Mastitis... I did 🙄

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MadeForThis · 09/02/2020 12:31

Keep us updated on how the dairy restriction is working. Good luck

user1480880826 · 09/02/2020 13:02

My EBF son had CMPA. Being breastfed does not mean you are immune to it. The dairy protein does enter your breast milk.

You need to remove all dairy from your diet for 6 weeks to see if it makes a difference. Also remove all soy because the protein structure is very similar and can result in the same reaction.

Good luck!

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