10 month just doesnt sleep

[Duncan10]

I know it's yet again another sleep post but girls, I'm getting so depressed and low. Please help. Beths never been a good sleeper, she had silent reflux but now it's getting ridiculous. She self settles at night sucking thumb but then wakes constantly and from around 3am just parties for hours! She has a rough routine as follows:

6am awake bottle and porridge
8:30 nap for until 10am
10:30 snack
12:30 lunch
1:30 bottle and sleep until 3pm
4:30 tea
6:30 sleep and bottle

She doesn't sleep driinking her bottle, she'll have it then I put her down awake in cot. She only ever takes 4oz and refuse more. She then can have 2-3 bottles in the night 😳

Please help. I'm losing the plot

It seems like she's having a lot of day sleep, 3 hours if I'm understanding that correctly?

Her tea seems a little bit early, have you tried moving it a little later? Maybe 5 o'clock?

If she's eating well during the day, she shouldn't need feeding overnight, especially if it's only 4oz at a time. I would start cutting down on bottles - e.g. if the first one's given at midnight, wait until 2am to give it to her. Or are they all after 3am onwards in an attempt to get her to sleep?

To be honest, if she's happy, leave her to it. DS went through a phase like this and we just turned off the baby monitor (we could hear him if he started crying). Eventually he started sleeping through.