Missing info on sleep training guides

[Busyfool]

Hi!
I've read so many sleep training methods for night weaning but I can never find the answer to our issue! Can anyone help!?

DD is waking 2 hourly & I can cuddle her to sleep & get her down without a feed maybe once around 12 pm but the other times she is waking up crying & no amount of shushing, dummy, patting consoles her. The non crying methods literally list these as if baby will definitely just go back to sleep!
If I pick up & cuddle to sleep it normally lasts 30 mins before I'm back in there doing the same again.
Obviously the easiest & quickest way for us to all get sleep is to do a quick feed but I head back to work soon & I'm hoping we can wean her & get her to self settle so we are at only 1 or 2 feeds a night not 5!
Am I missing something in all the instructions for methods?!
TIA x

How old is she?
Makes a big difference to what might work best and whether it might be a sleep regression phase

She's now 9 months old but hasn't changed her sleep pattern for quite a few weeks now so don't think we are in any regression phases.

8-10 mo is a classic sleep regression period.

I didn't night wean til 21 mo when DS had more understanding so it could be done without upset. Nothing else worked much before about 18 mo when sometimes a cuddle was an acceptable alternative.

What is husband/partner doing to help or support (if one is around?)

Is she having a growth spurt perhaps?

It's so difficult isn't it! If they aren't teething (DD has no teeth yet but likely they are still moving no doubt), growth spurt, sleep regression, then they've likely got a cold or something! 😝
We are surviving on what we are doing so I guess it's working out ok. My partner feeds formula to DD when she wakes until 1am ish & I do the rest of the night breastfeeding.

Hopefully it's enough to get me through a full day at work one day at a time! 🙈
Thanks for your comments x