Hi am I being unreasonable my partner has a son from previous which we have every other weekend. And at present we are having continuous arguments about his behaviour etc when we have him. He is 8 this year never had a bedtime routine goes to bed when he wants still sleeps with mom or aunt as they share because mom has new boyfriend. At present mom has been giving him Phenergan to help him sleep which is not recommended for over 14 days he has been on this 4 months now. He has severe anxiety when away from mom as he misses her etc and constantly says my mom never shouts at me gets me what I want etc . He doesn’t seem to have any discipline plus his diet consists of jam sandwich sweets chips nuggets pizza biscuits nothing healthy. She recently bought him a weighted blanket for sleep which I feel is a waste as he still sleeps with her so how can this help. I’ve had enough because me and my partner get no time at all all weekend as he has to stay with him all evening and takes 3 hours to settle of a night so we are having constant continuous no sleep which affects our work. She won’t do anything about it what can I do I’ve really had enough surely at neatly 8 he should be transitioned to sleep alone. Any advice welcome thanks