Our 4 year old DS won't stay in his own bed and will happily keep sneaking out until 9pm or later. I've tried the 'lead them back to their bed without talking' but he will literally keep coming out. Have also tried bribery buy that hasn't worked. At the moment I've put a gate on his door and he is crying. It is horrendous but I don't know what else to do. Do I just let him sleep in our bed? If I stay in with him we won't settle, he is so excited to have me there. I'm at a loss!